Saturday, November 6, 2010

Reaction time!

To start out I think one of the greatest things that I’ve learned from my Mom (thanks Mom) is that you can’t control what is going to happen or how others are going to react, you can only control how YOU react to a situation. This holds true for lots of situations in life and I think especially in parenting. For example, I can’t control what Hunter is going to do with his food once I put it in front of him…I can however control my reaction when it goes toppling to the floor and he looks up at me waiting with a mischievous grin spread from ear to ear. Hehe…of course I can laugh about it now but in that moment when I’m trying to pull dinner together for Jason and I, Colton is ready to start his dinnertime melt down and Hunter is sitting in his highchair ready to start Food Fight 2010, I have to take a moment…deep breath in and out and remember…he is just doing it to see what kind of reaction it musters. This time I ignore it…say “Uh Oh! Let’s keep our food on our tray” and start to clean it up, all the while the little monster is trying to pull at my hair while I’m on all fours picking little bits of carrot and peas out of the carpet.

What a little turkey, sure he knows he shouldn’t deliberately toss his food over the edge but he simply can’t help the fact that he desperately needs to see what will happen. I think the easiest thing to forget is that he is going to learn from my reaction that “Gee I guess that didn’t work”, and that our consistency in his discipline (in this case ignoring the behavior entirely) is most important. Hunter is always striving for the laughs, he will definitely be a class clown. I will be that parent who has the child that brings home the “disturbs others in class” notated on his report cards. :-)

This testing for a reaction phase IS going to pass. Right?! Well actually, I’m not so naive to believe it will ever really pass, I’m sure it really just morphs as they get older. Maybe by the time Colton gets to this point we’ll be old pros. Maybe…?? Oh poor Hunter, our little guinea pig. :) We love you son!

This blog…

Well I originally started this blog to not only update our family and friends on the kids and to share pictures but to chronicle our crazy journey into parenthood. As most of you know (those of you who have followed along throughout the past year) I’ve tried to keep everyone up to date on the happenings with Hunter’s medical status. It seems that we have found a good treatment plan for now and not much changes month to month. I’ve decided to take this blog further into our daily life now with Hunter being a curious, loveable, inquisitive, some-times head strong toddler and with Colton just beginning to notice the world around him and share with you some of the things my children are teaching me about myself and the crazy world around us. I want to be able to look back at this blog years from now and see how far we’ve come through the tough stuff and use it to remember the really fantastic times too.

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

October 2010!

In September we had Colton tested to see if he had the same genetic anomaly that Hunter has and at this point everything looks great. Colton doesn’t appear to have the same medical issues as Hunter but to be sure we will have him retested at 6 months of age.

Hunter continues to thrive, the medical routine hasn’t changed and we are still waiting to hear if the research lab at Stanford finds anything. At this point they potentially could give us a “what” but it wouldn’t necessarily mean we would change Hunter’s treatment because the “what” would be so new and cutting edge to the medical community. We are optimistic that we will at some point at least have a name for Hunter’s uniqueness. We also sent off Colton’s, Jason’s and my blood for analysis to see if our blood might hold some answers for the scientists looking at Hunter’s case.

We are getting ready for Halloween and can’t wait! Hunter is going to be a Monkey! And Colton will be a bat! I will post pictures. Promise!

We just spent the weekend up in SCV and visited Lombardi’s Ranch! Here are some cute pics from our visit:

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Colton James Knott!

All is well at the Knott homestead. Yet again it’s been too long between posts.

Colton James Knott arrived on August 19th via c-section (he really didn’t want to come out) at 6:32 pm, weighing 9 lbs. 5 oz. and 20 inches long. After spending a few days in the hospital we were ready to come home. Since then we have fallen into a pretty good routine. Hunter is an amazing big brother and much more helpful then I anticipated he would be at this age. Woohoo!! :)

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Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Another Overdue Update!

Ok, ok…sorry for the lack of news on my end. I’ve been horrible about keeping our blog updated.

Well we just celebrated Hunter’s 1st birthday. We can’t believe our little guy is a year old. We had a party with friends and family, some of which have never met Hunter because we haven’t been brave enough to bring him to family functions yet. It was a great afternoon, thanks to all of you who joined us and for all of the birthday wishes from those who couldn’t make it! We are truly blessed.

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Hunter is a crawling fool and races up and down the hallway as we chase after. He is still a few weeks from walking but we know it’s right around the corner. He pulls himself up on everything and loves to walk around while holding onto your fingers. It is only a matter of time before we are chasing around a full on toddler. He has been busy working on sprouting more teeth. He has cut the two teeth that flank the top two middle front teeth, however those middle front teeth are taking their time coming in. We call him our little vampire baby! :) Seems only appropriate with all the vampire hype these days.

On the medical front, he has continued to thrive. Praise God! He continues to stay healthy and is growing like a weed. We are still on the hunt for some kind of diagnosis or explanation as to what happened or what is causing the immune deficiency. We have sent a blood sample of his and my own blood to a research lab at Stanford. They have found that his T-cell receptor cells (these are the guys that tell certain parts of the immune system where to go and what to do incase of an infection) are low in number and function (but only mildly so), which is good news. Last month we tested his blood to see how the number of T-cells were doing (8 months ago he was nearly lacking all CD4 cells…the guys that fight viruses and fungal infections) and we were pleasantly surprised to find that the number of cells has risen within normal ranges, however we just sent off a blood sample to see how these guys are functioning. We expect to see that although he has a good number of cells those cells are not functioning at all or as well as they should. The research lab at Stanford has also sent a portion of his blood to another lab in Oregon for what’s called STAT5 sequencing. STAT5 is a part of the T-cell receptor that can be examined for abnormalities. If we find out that his STAT5 is abnormal it would give us an explanation as to why his body isn’t manufacturing enough good healthy CD4 cells. However, since this is all based on the research level we are dealing with a diagnosis that would be cutting edge and having that diagnosis would not necessarily change anything regarding his therapy or what we are doing at this point, we would just have another piece to the puzzle. Soooo…we’ll see.

Hunter currently still has his Broviac catheter in his chest providing access for the doctors to give him medicine intravenously and to pull blood when necessary. We have made the decision to remove the external catheter and place an internal port-a-cath instead, this will be placed under the skin below his collarbone and attached to the muscle with 2 tiny sutures to prevent it from moving. This will provide the doctors with the same access they have now and allow us to bathe Hunter on a more consistent basis (he usually only gets a real bath once a week now because we can’t allow the dressing on the external catheter to get wet) and we will no longer have to flush the catheter every night, which will minimize the risk of infection (every time we flush his catheter we risk pushing a bad bug right into his blood stream). With the internal port he will endure a single poke when we go for infusions or blood draws but it will be much less painful then if the nurse were trying to find a vein for the IV and it only needs to be flushed once a month. On August 2nd we are having a consultation with the surgeon that placed the previous catheter to go over the process and what to expect and on that following Friday, August 6th, Hunter will be having the surgery to have his current catheter removed and the new port-a-cath placed. Having the exterior catheter has truly been a blessing keeping him from having to be pricked with a needle for blood draws and infusions, as Hunter continues to grow and develop changing the exterior catheter to a completely internal catheter seems like the best move. Please pray for our family as our little trooper takes another step towards a more normal everyday routine. We continue to pray that he remains a happy, healthy little boy and we truly appreciate all the continued prayers for our little guy.

We are also busy getting ready for baby boy #2. The doctor believes he will be bigger then Hunter. At my doctor’s appointment last Thursday the baby was measuring about 2 1/2 weeks ahead of schedule in size (when she measuring my belly) so next week we are going for an ultrasound to see just how big this little fella is going to be. :) Please continue to say prayers for our soon-to-be newest edition. There is a 50/50 chance that he will also have this genetic abnormality. Good news is we have a better idea of what to look for and we’ll know within the first month what we are dealing with hopefully preventing any of the sickness that Hunter endured. 

Baby Boy Knott #2…looks just like Hunter did that that stage. :)

Thanks again and again for your continued prayers for our family.

Love, D

Monday, March 22, 2010

Spring has sprung!

Well we don’t have much news on the medical front for Hunter. He continues to do very well and at this point the doctors are pretty much in wait-and-see mode with Hunter. At least we know what we are dealing with (without knowing how long it may last…he may outgrow this deficiency in his C4 receptors and he may not, time will tell) and the current regime of antibiotics seem to be working.

Hunter is now 8 months old…soon too be 9 MONTHS! I know I say this a LOT but where did the time go!? :) He began crawling on Friday and has been going non-stop ever since. We definitely have our hands full!

Jason and I are excited to also announce that we are expecting the arrival of another son on August 23rd. This surprise was definitely that…a surprise. :) We are very thankful that God has blessed us with another baby and we can’t wait for Hunter to have a little brother. The Lord works in mysterious ways and if we haven’t learned anything else in this past year with Hunter it is that God has a plan and ultimately he is in control. So a new chapter begins in our lives and our family of 3 is about to become 4. :)

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Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Videos

I have finally figured out how to put videos on the blog…we have been doing a lot of these lately. Oh how he cracks me up!!

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